Thanking God in Tough Days (2)

 

Ephesians 5: 3, 4; 15-20

 

When I was in Beirut, I tried to adopt Thanksgiving and put it on our calendar. Although Thanksgiving is an American idea, I thought we as Armenians need to have such a day on our calendars. Therefore, I tried to introduce this important day to the attention of my congregation.

 

One day, I wanted to see if the people of Beirut would say “Thank you.” Driving in Beirut is an adventure. There are some traffic laws, but no one obeys them. I decided to obey them. I decided to be the most polite driver. Therefore, when I came to an intersection, I gave the right of way to the other driver. Out of ten, only two said “Thank you” by shaking their heads.

 

Sister Hedwig, a Swiss Missionary, served in Ainjar for many years. She initiated a feast called: the harvest day. The villagers brought their crops, fruits and vegetables to the house of the Lord to express their thankfulness to God.

 

In the Armenian message, I said that being worried would not help us thank God. In fact, being worried will just keep us depressed, full of bitterness, and compliant. Today’s second passage is from Ephesians. We discussed this letter a month ago. It is appropriate to look at it today from a different perspective.

Paul wrote this letter when in the midst of persecution and trouble.  He asked us to be IMITATORS of GOD.  In this short passage, twice he asked us to be thankful.

The first one comes after series of sins that Paul urges the church to stay away from. Then he gives a solution: “but rather thanksgiving.” (vs. 4)

In the second part, again he urges the church to be careful in lifestyle: how to live, how to be wise and not foolish. He urges the church to be filled with the Spirit. The result: “speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.” (vs. 19-20).

 

In both passages, being thankful is a biblical imperative. It is not just a choice to be thankful or not. It is result of being with God; it is the result of looking to life and to its circumstances with thankful eyes. In Armenian, the expression “shnorhagal em” (thank you) is unique. Have you ever thought what it literally means? It means, “I have received grace.”  What a wonderful attitude in thanking each other or God! God gives us His grace and we, on the other side, receive it thankfully.  Through the grace of Jesus, we look at life in a different way.

 

Paul urges the Ephesian church “to be wise making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil” (vs. 16).

 

a- Paul did not write all these when he was sitting in five star hotel. He was in prison. He was beaten many times. He was chained. Paul learned thanking God when things are in bad shape. He learned to thank God and asked the church to thank God when persecution is going on.

These days are evil. Look to this sentence carefully. Poverty in the world is getting worse. Wars: unfinished business. Environment is being ruined and people need to do something about it. Immorality and crime are rising. The DAYS ARE EVIL.

Paul is asking us to use time wisely. Let me combine Mathew’s passage with Paul’s. Stop worrying, turn to God and be thankful. A good example is Job. He lost everything, but he did not lose his grateful heart.

 

b- Are you thankful for things, or thankful in all things?

 We need to learn to thank God because of who He is. We are so much used to be thankful if we receive something (things). That is not the issue. Be thankful in everything and for everything.

Where do you stand today?

Look how the Pilgrims had their first Thanksgiving. Half their number dead, men without a country, but still there was thanksgiving to God. Why? Because it was not for things.

I heard that our economy booms in Thanksgiving weekend. Why? We go shopping. We go shopping to buy things. It satisfies our desire to have something. The next day we are hungry and empty, and maybe broke. Therefore, we become worried and anxious. Then we try to solve our problem with a counselor who will charge us $300/hour. More money, more anxiety, more worry. You see, it is a trap that all of us can fall into. It is a vicious loop.

Are you thankful this morning, despite the problems you are facing?

 

c- Learn to be thankful, because it is a witness in this dark and evil world.

By being a witness, you can be a light to a person who does not have any hope. Where would you have been if you had not known God?

Thank Him today. Thank God, that you know Him.

Learn to continue thanking by being a witness for the others. Witnessing is also sharing. Share your thankful heart with others. Sharing can be in telling about Jesus: sharing the Good News.

By the Grace of God, we are what we are (I Cor. 15:10).  Because of His grace, we can witness and thank. The credit goes to God.

 

d- Paul asks the church to continue in singing and saying psalms:

“Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord,..” (vs. 19)

I enjoy singing. I love to see the church singing. Not only in the church, but also in our life. When the CACC ladies were working preparing food for our food festival, suddenly one of the women started singing and the others joined. What a blessing!

I arrived to Ainjar in 1990. The first week I was there two women died. Both lived on the same street; both were called Sara, and both were more than 90 years old. In that culture, you go to the house of the deceased. The coffin will be open in the middle house. I went. Women and men were sitting around the coffin. Then one of the ladies said to me, “ Badveli, start singing.” For almost one hour we were singing hymns. It was an experience I can never forget. Hymns and singing were part of the grief. God speaks to us as we sing. God wants us to spend time in singing and worshipping him. Again this can happen when you have a thankful heart to the Lord.

 

Are you thankful this morning?

Let me finish with this illustration:

Once an evil king who wanted his people lose their faith in God. He wanted to hide God in a place that no one would ever find Him.

His advisers came up with the following suggestions:

1. An adviser said, “Let us send God to the dark side of the moon so no one will find him.”

The King disagreed: “What if one day technology advances? They will go to the moon and find God there?”

2. Someone else suggested to hide God in the deep ocean. Again, the King did not like the idea for the same reason.

3. The Third adviser said, “Let us hide God in a place no will think of.”

“Where?” they asked.

“Let us hide God in people’s daily life, in everyday’s events. People will not recognize Him.” And the story continues till today. People are searching for God.

 

Let us thank God. He is with us in our life, in everyday’s events. Let us stop worrying. Instead let us seek His Kingdom. Let us approach to the Lord’s Table, to the Thanksgiving Table, with grateful hearts. Let us approach the Table, with confession and humility. Come to God with thanksgiving, with singing and praise.

God is with us. Emmanuel.

Amen