God Continues to Clothe Us (2)

(God's Magnificent Work through Christ)

 

Eph 4:29-32, 5:1-2

 

We are in God’s department store. God carefully tailors clothes for each one of us. He knows our names, individually. His designs are custom-made for each one of us. What a joy that God clothes us!

 

5.  Clothes of Compassion (31-32)

            “Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with    every form of malice. (31)

 

The word bitterness is a critical word. We become bitter when we refuse to reconcile with God, with people, or even with ourselves.  Bitterness starts from a hardened HEART that does not allow grief to be healed. When we are bitter, our mind does not see any other “alternatives” and Paul’s list becomes a reality:

Rage (wrath), anger (we spoke about this in previous sermon), brawling (clamor, outcry, shouting explosively), slander the Greek word blasphmeia, (like gossip, speaking evil behind a person), malice (wickedness, wishing ill toward someone.)

Let these things put away, bad old clothes that can ruin us. We cannot do it alone. We need Christ.

How was David examining his life?

“Search me, O God, and examine my heart;

And see if wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting” (Psalm 139:23-24a).

In other translations:

“And see if there be any grievous way in me” (ESV)

“And see if there be hurtful way in me” (NASB)

 

If you have had painful experiences, you may pray this in your heart.  “Lord, my heart is in pain, and I am not reconciled. I know that pain will make me bitter if left without healing, and eventually it will destroy me. I need a new heart and new clothes O Lord”.

 

 

-Paul quickly gives an alternative lifestyle, new clothes by God:

“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” (32)

The word “kindness” in Greek is chrestos. From that same root we get the word Christian. Chrestos means “imparting good to others in a gentle and generous way.”

It means also “to be useful to others.” This was the mark of Christians in the First Century.

The word “forgiving each other” is another important new clothing. The Greek word is charizomai, The word includes chariz, which means grace. So the word forgiving means, “to be gracious, kind, benevolent; graciously to restore one another.” (Thayer’s Lexicon)

 

All these virtues mentioned above have something to do with treating others, our relationships. Without compassion and forgiveness, I am not sure how the body can function. The best example is how God treats us. Without God’s compassion and love, where would I be? Where would you be?

We grow as a body of believers when we forgive each other and have compassion towards each other. Forgiveness is the heart of the gospel. We need to learn to be clothed with the clothes of compassion.

Do you find yourself bitter?

Maybe you did not allow God’s love to shape you. Maybe you did not experience God’s forgiveness in your life. If God is compassionate and affectionate towards us, then we do not have a choice!

 

Finally, we need to be imitators of God (5:1-2)

Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.”

I remember when I became a teenager, I started to care more about what I wore, how I combed my hair, what color I chose for clothes and so on. Of course I learned to imitate someone. John Travolta was one of them in 1970s. Do you remember the movie called Saturday Night Fever? We boys learned to walk like John Travolta.

How about the children of the family?  Children when they are young always want to look and act like their parents. Children imitate their parents. They imitate both the positive and negative behaviors. Therefore, we all learn from someone, somewhere. How about our God being our parent? Paul is urging us to be imitators of our Heavenly Father.

“Walk in Love, live a life of love” is what is required to be imitators of God, and an example is Christ himself.

 

Here is one of my favorite verses in the Bible which meant a lot to me when I first became a Christian:

“I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.” (Gal 2:20)

This clothing business is accomplished with one basic clothing:

-Get Christ in your life, and learn how to die to the old life by accepting the new life.

-Then the world needs your new clothes to be shared.

Some examples:

 

-Rev. Haig Hovsepian, an Iranian Armenian pastor believed in “wearing Christ, and being imitator of God” in his ministry. Besides being a pastor and evangelist, he helped a Iranian pastor who was convert from Islam to Christianity to be out of prison. But this act was costly. Rev. Haig lost his life. He was assassinated. He became the sacrifice, “just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God”.

 

-A testimony by a Romanian pastor Richard Wurmbrand, who spent many years imprisoned for his faith:

“Would you accept? More than once in Communist prisons I have seen a pastor receive a beating to the blood in place of another prisoner. A name would be called and the pastor would simply say, “It is I.” In Auschwitz, Maximilian Kolbe, a priest, offered to take the place of a Pole sentenced to death by the Nazis. The Pole was the father of many children. The commandant of the camp accepted the substitution and the Pole was spared.”(from book One Hundred Prison Meditations.)

 

Jesus did this exactly on the cross so we can be delivered. I cannot save people from their sins but can show His kindness. Remember, we are called Christians. And chrestos means “imparting good to others in gentle and generous way.”

We need to share what Christ gave us, His GRACE, compassion and love.

We live in the US, and no one is threatening us because of our faith. Yet, there is a lot to do. We need Christ daily to help us to be God’s imitators. As Christ loved his people, we need to learn how to love our neighbor. There should be a deliberate search for the neighbor.

I see needs, and not because I am pastor, but because I tune my ears to hear the needs and act.

I saw a movie called the Soloist. It is a tragic and hopeful movie. It was a secular movie, but if you ask me it has a strong message to all of us. A talented man who was very good in music became homeless. He even was admitted to Julliard School of Music and attended a couple of years. He lost everything because of an illness called Schizophrenia. But this journalist, who was searching for story to write, accidentally found him and became his friend. He did not cure him, in fact there was no cure, but the message of the film was how friendship and kindness helped this homeless man find a new hope in life.

 

What about us?  We are Christians. Do we reflect God’s kindness? Are we living with the clothes given by God?

Are we living like CHRISTIANs, Chrestos?

Allow the Holy Spirit to shape you. Do not grieve the Spirit of God.

Amen