God Continues to Clothe Us

Nor Hacovsdnyr @yvova/ Asdov/o3 go.me (P7 Mas)

 (God's Magnificent Work through Christ)

 

Eph 4:29-32, 5:1-2

 

We could not finish the 4th chapter of the Letter to the Ephesians.  We were talking about how God clothes us with new clothes.  Let me remind you of the ones we covered so far:

Clothes of Truthfulness, Clothes of Controlled Emotions, Clothes of Work.

Today we will add:  Clothes of Edifying Speech and Clothes of Compassion.

 

4.  Clothes of Edifying Speech (29-30)

“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.  And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.” (29-30) 

My mom often reminded us of a saying that impressed me.  Shad khoskin mech shad meghk ga.”  In too many words, there will be too many sins.

I found the root of this saying in the Bible.  It is from Proverbs 10:19.

“When words are many, sin is not absent, 
            but he who holds his tongue is wise.”

I need to be careful in this; all of us need to be careful.  I am a person who uses a lot of words for communicating sermons, Bible studies, counseling and so on.  May God lead me every day in whatever I will say.

I found out that the root of the word “unwholesome” has to do with decaying as in fish or grapes.  An example of decayed or garbage-like speech is gossip. The intention of gossip is to put someone down.  The intention of speech should be the edification of the body.  The members of the body of Christ edify each other.  The body of Christ needs words that build each other up.

This is what King Solomon writes about the power of words:

            A man finds joy in giving an apt reply
            and how good is a timely word! (Prov. 15:23)

            A word aptly spoken (timely advice- NLT)
            is like apples of gold in settings of silver. (Prov. 25:11)

Words and words and words.  We need the wisdom of God to know when to talk, how much to talk, and when to remain silent.  James describes the tongue as being like an uncontrollable fire which destroys everything on its way, like the recent fire in Santa Barbara.

Let me quote from Isaiah, a verse that I also mentioned last week.

            “The Lord GOD has given me the tongue of those who are taught, that I      may know how to sustain with a word him who is weary.  Morning by    morning he awakens; he awakens my ear to hear as those who are             taught.” (Isaiah 50:4)

The NIV commentary describes it best:

“We fail to realize the power and dignity of language.  Nearly all our language does things.  Words are commitments, and with them we enable and support or diminish and destroy.” (NIV p 258)

 

This section of the letter ends with the concept of grieving the Holy Spirit.

“And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.” (30)

Perhaps Paul is saying if we continue refusing to be clothed by God, and continue walking in the “old life” in the “old clothes” we will “grieve” the Spirit of God.  

When we accept Christ, the Holy Spirit works within us.  The scripture says we are sealed with Spirit of the Lord.  God’s Spirit is there within us.  But when we lie, when we are selfishly angry, when we steal, when we use unwholesome words, we “grieve” the Holy Spirit.  Our body is the temple of Holy Spirit.  And together, we are the church, the body of Christ.  All these clothes help us to edify the body and not damage it.  Our old life, our old clothes do not just destroy our relationship with each other, they also grieve God’s Spirit in our life.

 

We will continue in English.