Why Do We Pray?

 

Luke 18:1-18

 

The parable of the Persistent Widow or even the Parable of the Unjust Judge.  Another interesting parable by Jesus!

Remember to keep in mind that parables have one main point and in this case it is persistence in prayer.  This parable has one important point:  Pray without giving up.  It helps you to grow in your faith.

 

We ask many times questions that bother us in prayer life.

How long should we pray for something?

Should we continue praying for something that is not answered?

Can I change God’s mind?

God is sovereign; He knows everything and He will answer prayer according to His will.  Why should we therefore ask?

 

We will try to answer some of those tough questions.

Life’s circumstances give us BURDENS to pray for.  Lately in our church life, Daniel’s sudden sickness and Salpi’s sudden coma in Greece have become heavy burdens in our prayers.  The situation in Armenia and Artsakh are topics that we cannot ignore.  As a pastor, I have the burden of praying for the salvation of more people in our Bay Area or the burden of a revival in the church.

Circumstances affect our prayers.  Sometimes we stop praying for these issues; sometimes we are reminded again and we start praying more.  Each of us takes these issues differently.  Whenever we see answers, we are encouraged and we continue praying.  Other times we do not see our prayers answered and we give up.  Then we start asking, “How long I should pray for something?  Should I be like this widow who went to the judge and begged, and did not give up?  Does God like that?  Does God need to be awakened?  Do I need to do something to capture His attention to my plea?”  Sometimes I feel like the widow who feels the “judge” is not giving her enough attention.

I often do not see the big picture in my prayer life.  I pray for the immediate needs.  I don’t know how God intends to answer my prayer. He is God and I am not.  I don’t know how God answers our prayers, but he does not always do it according our wishes.

This should not stop us from praying.  Therefore, what can we learn from this parable?

 

1. Praying is a two-way communication.

What a wonderful opportunity is prayer!  I can open my heart to my Maker, to my Father.  It is like talking to my parents.  It is the same intimate level as with my parents, my spouse, or my dearest friend.  God is not sitting there somewhere like a judge scanning my life and doing what police does to the guilty party.  No, He is my Father, my daddy, (hayrigs e) who listens and cares.  I know that I cannot change Him, but God loves His creatures to speak with Him.  In your talk to Him, you can open your heart to HIM.

 

2. Praying confirms total dependence

“I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better.” (Ephesians 1:17)

When we pray, we become closer to Him.  By coming closer to God, we can know Him better.  This was Paul’s request for the church of Ephesus.  He keeps teaching the church over and over to know God better.

We often think, “Why should we pray more and more if God knows everything?  Let Him answer us when we ask just once or even not ask at all.”

Remember, prayer is communication with God.  It is a relationship, a love relationship with God.  When we pray, we do not INFORM.  God knows; He does not need our information.  We pray to express our total dependence on Him in every circumstance.  As we pray persistently, we are further seeking His Spirit of wisdom.  St. Augustine said about prayer, “…that he himself may be constructed, not that God may be instructed.”1

 

To be continued in English.

 

1. St. Augustine, quoted in Friedrich Heiler, Prayer, op. cit, 200.